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First Date with A Woman – How to get information out of her to help you get the conversation going?

30th March, 2010 - Posted by admin - No Comments

These are just a few ideas to help you keep an interesting conversation going. The latest movie or the most thought-provoking book she has read recently, her interest in pets, music, sports etc. are all good conversation starters. Whatever you talk about, remember to pay attention and make direct eye contact. It’s a real turn-off to talk to any person who’s eyes are roaming all over the place.

File away pieces of information that may come in handy later like the types of books she reads or the movies she likes to go to. That gives you ideas for potential dates or presents.

Follow up on interesting pieces of information as they emerge. If she talks about how much she adored that particular play, ask her what was so impressive about it. If she tells you that she’s been feeling a little exhausted, ask her why. Not only will you come across as truly attentive and caring, you’ll also be able to keep the conversation going easily. Simple questions sometimes lead up to the most interesting conversations so pursue any conversational track as it opens up as long as it isn’t extremely personal.

Be alert to any opportunities that present themselves. For instance, is she wearing an interesting piece of jewelry or does she have an exotic middle name? Ask her about the significance of that accessory or the meaning of her name. Compliment her about any particular aspect of her clothing or personality that you find interesting.

Be sure to give her honest compliments instead of simply offering her cheesy lines or false flattery that’ll damage your credibility. Being honest about your emotions is better than putting up a false front too. If you are nervous say so and continue. She’ll appreciate your honesty and it’ll put her at ease if she happens to be nervous herself.